https://youtu.be/C5qfKaVe89c?t=2160

Let me ask you guys an interesting question: What is the best way for you to get someone else to disclose their suicidal thoughts to you?  Any idea?

"Ask them" is incorrect.

"Listen" is incorrect.

"Are you good" is incorrect.  "Are you okay" is incorrect.

"Trust" is wrong.

You disclose yours first.  So do it.  You model the behavior.  You be vulnerable.  You share.  And if you're not suicidal, don't share that -- share something else.  Don't worry alone.  If you wanna help someone else, start by asking for their help.