Just once, I'd like for someone else to be the one taking care of me.  For someone else to be the responsible one.  For someone else to be prepared.  For someone else to anticipate and worry.  I'd like for someone else to be the one cleaning up the mess.  For someone else to follow through.  For someone else to be the one being left on read.  I'd like for someone else to remember.

It's not just my bias, is it?

Just because I wouldn't complain doesn't mean I don't get tired of it.  You really ought to do your best not to complain.  It's not good.